#MOMLIFE ~If mom ranks herself in last place, it’s never good~

Fatigue, impatience, irritability, malaise. Oh, just the usual. It’s natural as a mother, it’s completely natural at this stage of life, many people wave it and let the squirrel wheel just keep spinning. They shouldn’t!

Why??

Because it leads in the wrong direction. If all this becomes permanent, it is no longer part of a certain stage of life (at home with a baby or young children), but probably of a bad schedule, little self-time, and monotony. Many moms rank themselves last in family life.

If this is always the case, after a while she and her family will see the damage. It is precisely those for whom he makes sacrifices.

„But it’s not a sacrifice for me,” many mothers said…

Raising children, doing around them, doing for them, doing with them, joy, happiness, but also plenty of renunciation.

„I do this because of them, for me they are all” Many moms say

Of course. Every mother lives for her children. For them too! However, many people do not help themselves even when they have been feeling that much for weeks or months. This goes on until something bad happens or they make a mistake because of their fatigue, which causes them to have eternal remorse and even less self-confidence and “I have time”, which sooner or later completely loses themselves, their femininity and depression takes the control, they will lose.

If a mother is often reluctant, experiences everything, and even feels downright a victim, it is likely that she has been pushed into the background for some time. Many moms say she has outright remorse, if she cares a little about herself, she jumps over to have a coffee with a girlfriend.

It’s time to reorganize, to schedule your time better, more skillfully. And if you can, ASK FOR MORE HELP!!!! {I would add, there are plenty of examples of the opposite, who are constantly outsourcing their child, he himself spends far less time with the little one than he should, but he will write about it in another writing.}

Mothers who don’t dare or want to ask for enough help, even though they feel inside that they should need it, will sooner or later refer to a forced rest. And that’s really good for anyone.

As a mother, we have the same time for ourselves, be it work, fun, pampering, anything that goes well.

Moms who don’t regret it all on their own are more balanced, smiley, more patient, kinder to their environment in the long run. Not to mention that it’s especially good for kids to sometimes have someone different with them because it’s a different experience, a different programs, a different feeling.

They themselves will be more independent, learning how to solve things if there is no mother, to whom to turn.

Maternal self time is especially necessary because, as I have always said: if mother is good, everyone is fine – and that matters